We have been married sixteen years to the day, and I can finally share the secret to a happy marriage:there are no secrets.
No, really -- that's it!
The best of loves is a come-as-you-are, take-me-as-I-am kind of love.
It's a love-me-looking-hot and
It's a man-you-piss-me-off-sometimes
and only-you-can-push-that-button reality,
as well as an
and you-still-give-me-butterflies fantasy.
it's the fantastic real-ness of it all that astounds me after sixteen years.